So much I want to tell you: letters to my little sister

Pt. 1. Creativity

Find your voice

Once you've found your voice, let it evolve

If you want to be the star, create the show

The only way to start is to start

It's called work for a reason

Ideas are a dime a dozen

It's okay if it sucks

Fail more

You are not your art

Develop a thick skin

Pt. 2. Identity

When it comes to self-care, find what works for you

Succeed because of your race, not despite it

It's okay to want to be beautiful a s long as it's your definition of beauty

You can't treat an emotional problem physically

Pt. 3. Money, work, and career

More money, more independence

On being an internet personality

How to be a boss

Give yourself permission

You don't need balls

Take care of your people

Crunch the numbers

Stand up for yourself; no one else is going to

Don't sign anything unless you understand what it means

Do every job

Work hard, work smart

Know your shit

If you don't know how to do something, find someone who does

Pt. 4. Relationships

You don't realize how important friends are until you're friendless

Don't be afraid to cross people off the list

Love

If he doesn't listen, ditch him

Take your birth control

The hardest part of being in an emotionally abusive relationship is actually admitting that you're in one

Nice guys don't finish last

Choose life.